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In a world that is increasingly about self-development, we seem to lose sight of the greatest good: each other. The emphasis is on me, my growth, my path, my success. But the further we develop ourselves, the more we seem to get lost in the loneliness of the ego. For what happens when the self becomes the center of everything?

Doubts about the self become greater. We strive for perfection, for personal goals, but lose something essential along the way: connection.

Self-development mentors and coaches are popping up like mushrooms these days. On the one hand, that’s wonderful. It is valuable when people get to know themselves better, heal old wounds and make more conscious choices. But there also seems to be another side to it. Digging to deeper and deeper layers is no longer a path to connection for many, but an endless journey of the ego. A new form of “more. More insight, more healing, more me. And in that process we lose the other. The fellow man disappears into the background, while the focus remains entirely on the self.

In South Africa there is a different mindset. There they say, “I am because you are.” Ubuntu. A philosophy of life in which your own existence is intertwined with that of the other. Where you are only human, in relation to others. This is not a weakness, but rather a profound strength. It is a recognition of mutual dependence, of humanity, of love.

In Indonesia you also see it: families taking care of each other, living together, considering each other. The community is central. It is no coincidence that feelings like loneliness and depression are much less common there. Because where people live with each other, security is created. Warmth. Portability.

The we thinks with each other. It connects, communicates, feels. The we brings reverence and humility. It reminds us that we are not separate islands, but part of a greater whole.

I myself learned: on my own I went faster, but together I got much further. That deep lesson stays with me. We are not meant to do it alone. And we don’t have to do it alone either.

Here in Holland, we seem to lose touch with the soul. We run from yoga class to retreat, from coaching program to business retreat. Always looking for more – more growth, more insight, more success. But who carries you when you fall? Who really knows you, when you’re just working to become a better version of yourself?

At Boost the World Foundation, we believe it can be different. And should. It takes a village to raise a child. Not the individual, but the community bears. Not the ego, but the heart. The world does not need even more self-optimization, but more together. More we.

The self will never become fulfilled. The ego always wants more. But love, true connection, begins where the self steps aside. Where space is created for the other. Where I gives way to we.

Let us return. To humanity. To community. To a world where I exist because you exist.

Love, Rosanne

The Young Leader Expedition was a 2-month trip to South Africa, where a group of four youth under 25 explored and experienced the real South Africa. They stayed at a family-oriented foster care facility, helping with kids, working in food gardens, and collaborating with the Boost the World South Africa team. The expedition focused on making projects efficient, effective, and sustainable. Volunteers set up vegetable gardens and learned to collaborate on plans. They also visited museums, tasted local delicacies at Wandi’s in Soweto, and stayed at Kruger National Park saw the big 5 and Surfed, Hikes and enjoyed wine farms in Hermanus outside Cape Town and enjoyed beautiful beaches. The trip included self-direction plans and coaching sessions, fostering personal growth. Lasting relationships and special friendships were formed during this memorable journey.

Hi everyone! This is our final week here in South Africa. We’re really enjoying it and getting close to finishing our garden project. This week’s blog is a bit bigger then the others because we left on Thursday, so we thought it would be best to extend this week’s blog. This week Tijn wrote the blog again with his experiences, enjoy!

Monday:

On Monday Declan and I were still a bit sick and we mostly rested all day.

Tuesday:

Tuesday we continued with the project in the garden. The week before we had put the posts in the ground so we could start with the posts lying horizontally on the posts in the ground. This was quite a job as we had to hold up 6 meter long poles and drill into them in the meantime. After Quinn was too tired to continue, we unfortunately had to stop because this work was not possible with the two of us.

Wednesday:

On Wednesday we got into the car around 8 o’clock on our way to Hoedspruit. Hoedspruit is a village next to the Kruger Park where boost the world bought a piece of land a few months ago. The ride was a very nice ride through the high plains of South Africa. For lunch we stopped at a delicious Belgian pancake restaurant. When we arrived at our residence after a long day of driving, we were all impressed by the beautiful accommodations where we slept. We slept with Nico, a friend of Jacques and Barrie. Nico has a beautiful piece of land in the middle of the Kruger Park, so hyenas, zebras and buffaloes just walked along the fences. In the evening we had a delicious braai with Nico and his wife.

Thursday:

Thursday we got up at 5 am to go on safari. It was a beautiful sunny day and we saw a lot of animals. At the start of the Safari we soon saw a leopard, this is normally the most difficult animal to spot. It was a disappointment that we did not see any lions. After the Safari we drove to the area of ​​the angry the world to have a look around. There was still a lot to be done on the piece of land, so there was not much to see yet. At the end of the day we had a nice swim in the pool and then had a braai with Nico and a friend of his.

Friday:

Unfortunately, we went back home the next day. After a beautiful stop at a lookout we arrived back at Liv where we had a Christmas party with everyone from Liv. The Christmas party was very nice and cozy. The highlight was that Quinn participated, as the only boy, in the best dressed competition. Quinn eventually finished in second place. Later that evening, Willemijn Declan and I went to monte casino. The Netherlands played against Argentina and of course we couldn’t miss this. After an exciting game that ended with penalties, we went home disappointed, the Netherlands had lost…

Saturday:

On Saturday we were all a bit tired so we actually didn’t do much. Declan, Willemijn and I went shopping and sat on a terrace for a while.

Sunday:

On Sunday we went to the prison break market. This market was mainly filled with food stalls, all of which had great food. After getting some food here and there, we went hunting for presents for our parents. In the evening we had a nice meal together.

The week we leave South Africa:

The last few days were mostly used to finish our project and say our goodbyes to everyone. We finished our garden the last 3 days we were able to work. We drilled the last few holes, put some metal rods in and bolted them tight into the poles. When we were done with the hole structure, we asked Dan to get us some fruit trees. And Dan did get us some nice trees, a total of 15 trees where planted, among them were kiwi, lemon, nectarine and many more. Our last days we also said our goodbyes to Barrie, Jacque, Russel and all the others. We had a nice last lunch with the 3 of them and saw many of our friends we made here in South Africa, the day we left and before. 

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Nice to have you back for another weekly blog from us and if you’re new, welcome! This is a series of blogs, every week we write a blog of what we did and what we experienced that week. We are Willemijn (18 years old), Tijn (19 years old), Quinn (20 years old) and Declan (24 years old). We are on a 2-month trip to South Africa, to do volunteer work and do tourist excursions. We write these blogs to inform you about our trip and our experiences here.  

The week started off strong for Tijn, Quinn and Declan because they got handed an auger (a drilling machine that can make holes in the ground). It isn’t an easy machine to control and it wasn’t easy to use of a hole day. But we couldn’t lose any time, because we could only use it for 1 day (we had to rent it and its expensive). With renting the auger, we got 3 sizes to drill the holes with. Quickly we realized we couldn’t use the bigger size at the start, we had to use the smaller one first and then use the bigger one. We were using the auger with 2 people at a time, because it had 2 handles on both sides one. Sometimes we hit a big rock which almost made us fly (that is exaggerated, but it wasn’t fun). Then we had to try and get the rock out before we could go on with using the auger. Making 18 holes in one day is also not a walk in the park, we were exhausted after doing all the 18 holes. The weather also didn’t help much, because it was about 28 degrees almost the hole day. Because of that we had to drink enough and take some well-deserved breaks. Eventually we got it done and we were proud of ourselves and each other. Quinn said his arms were still shaking 2 hours after being done. 

After that we got the poles that are supposed to go into the ground, the next day. We put them in and had a look at if they were in a straight line or not. Because the hole was bigger than the poles, we had some room to move them around and make it straighter. Because we got the poles a little late during the day, we continued the next workday. This day we got all the poles into the ground using the end of a rake and water. You put dirt back into the hole around the pole and start poking that around the pole, so it becomes nice and firm. You also put some water over the dirt to make it more clay-like, so it sticks more to each other. 

Willemijn occasionally came by at the end of her working days to tell what she had done that day or to show one of her creations. This week she has been working hard on making the decor for the show at the preschool. The past few days have been busy for her. Watching the kids and the deadlines for the art took her overtime, but luckily she really enjoyed doing it. You can read more about this in the section below.

Friday 6 PM there was a performance from all the kids at the preschool in our big hall. It was an amazing performance, and all the kids did a great job. They were all dressed up and did a lot of dances on some well-known songs. Also, all the teachers had their own performance on the last song.

Unfortunately, Tijn and Declan got sick from the beef they both ate Friday evening, so that night Tijn couldn’t sleep and had to vomit a lot. Declan started to feel something only the next afternoon, because he went to go and played padel with Quinn and Russel first. We still watched the Netherlands play against the USA, Saturday afternoon.

On Sunday, Tijn and Declan were still not feeling the best, but we still went out to see the Poland against France world cup soccer game. We went to a mall and casino called Monti Casino, where they had a big screen just outside.

Willemijn her experience 

Phew, what a week… A busy week, but also my best week. The preschool show and the end of the school year were coming. Everything is arranged here at the last minute and so is the setting for the show. This made it more fun, because for the first time we were really working too hard with all the teachers to get everything done. I was given the task of making the surfboards. While painting, Principal Janine asked if I could help with the costumes for the kids. I let the painted surfboards dry and then started on the costumes right after work.

Earlier this week I should have made an Oscar for Teacher Norah. She needed it for her graduation day. She asked for my help; the Oscar had to be as tall as myself, painted gold, and oh, not to forget, ‘finished tomorrow’. This was quite a task. Especially since you can use the phrase “Can you please help me?” can translate into the sentence “You must do it for me.” I said I will do my best for her but make it at home. Principal Janine was okay with this. So 5 minutes later I walked home with a pair of scissors, a pencil, a ruler, an eraser and a cardboard sheet of exactly 1.68 meters. I put in my earphones and pressed the Christmas music Playlist. Meanwhile 6 hours later and listening to ‘Driving home for Christmas’ the Oscar was finished. I was extremely satisfied with the end result and immediately showed it to Declan and Tijn who were still working in the garden. Their reaction: “oh, yes, nice..” Yes, erm … that was a little less enthusiastic than I had hoped, but the man who helped them in the garden said “hey, that’s an Oscar right? Are you an artist?” so my ego was stroked enough to confidently continue my walk to preschool. On the way I met Teacher Norah. I rolled out the Oscar. She gave me a big hug and said “Do you know that I love you Willa”. Her reaction made me laugh and I always like her hugs. She’s one of those real huggers, not one with those limp arms. If you’re reading this and you’re one of those floppy arm huggers; Just give high-fives from now on.

The last thing I’m going to write about are the murals I got to make. Recently the ‘Caterpillar’ class has been swapped with the ‘Ladybugs’ class. At first the walls were themed around the class names, but after the switch the classes were painted all white. I asked Principal Janine if I could brighten up the Ladybugs class where I teach. She said she trusted in my creativity. So off I went, without a plan and permanent markers.. Her confidence and the word ‘permanent’ created pressure, but made it extra challenging and fun. I had drawn a large flower with some ladybugs on the wall. The kids and I were happy with the end result. Teacher Sibongile asked if I would also like to make this drawing 19 times for the kids’ reports. So by now I knew the entire Christmas Playlist by heart.

Not everyone will lie this week, but in my opinion it was great!

Hello everyone, we’re back with another blog of our 2 months trip to South Africa. This time we just got back from Cape Town and we needed to go back to work. We got back on a Monday evening and got back to work the next morning.

The first thing that needed to be done was leveling the ground, where we want to build our fruit tree grove. A lot was already done be other volunteers while we in Cape town, so we were very grateful. Because this isn’t an easy task, most of the soil there is as hard as a rock and there are a lot of big rocks and trash in the ground as well. Ones we got that all done we started mapping the ground. So that every pole that goes into the ground is placed well. We took some rope and attached it to a wall, but not at the end, we attached it 5 meters further. Now we were sure that the rope was a straight line, because it run along the wall. After that we put anchor points at the rope, each being 3 meters apart from each other (because we want the poles 3 meters apart from each other). Then we took a measuring tape and made sure it was in a 90-degree angle with the rope, so the poles will be in a straight line. To make sure all poles were in the correct place we also used math. So we measured the crossings as well, because they are supposed to be 4.24 meters (if you know how we calculated this, props to you!). 

Willemijn helped with leveling the ground at the start, but had to back to the preschool. She had to do her normal work she did before for several weeks. She is still in the same class she was in for the first couple of weeks, with the kids from the age of 2 until 3. 

Friday evening we went out to the German Country Club where Russel plays padel. Russel was also there with his 3 kids and Russel his girlfriend with her kid. We had dinner and watched the Netherlands play against Ecuador (it was a group stage world cup soccer game). Unfortunately, the Netherlands played 1-1 against Ecuador. But none the less, we had an amazing time together. We also planned to padel together the following weekend, so stay tuned for that (hopefully it’ll happen).

On Sunday we went to Jacque and Russel their church again and had a braai all together afterwards. For the ones that still don’t know what a braai is, it’s a BBQ in South Africa (they don’t even consider a BBQ, because they say a braai is way superior). We all went to Jacque and Russel their house, because they share a piece of land. Jacque his wife, kids, parents, his mother-in-law, sister-in-law with her husband and kids, Russel & his kids, Russel his girlfriend & her kid, Barrie with his wife & kids and of course us 4. It was a lively happening, we all had fun and had nice conversations.

Quinn’s experience this week
I had just recovered from being ill, so I wasn’t starting the week off completely fit, but was recovering. The leveling with a rake was rough work, but it was necessary to be able to continue with our project. The rest of the week was relatively chill, we didn’t really do too much, I helped out with some donations that we received. It was in the form of beds and other furniture, so I helped out moving them to the baby home, where they will be used next year when the baby home opens up again. I also brought it to some of the hardworking people living on the village, that also worked on site. Friday was very relaxing, and it’s always been a pleasure to hang out with Russel and his family. Going to Jacque and Russel’s house was genuinely amazing, it was a beautiful, rustic place with an amazing back garden and outside catering. We had a walk around the river, and found all sorts of forms of wildlife. The food was really good, and the gathering was very pleasant, and is something I will try and do more in my personal life too!

Day 1: Monday

On Monday Declan and I went to help the site team clean up the village. On Tuesday the former founders of Liv Lanseria came by so everything had to look neat and tidy. After 2 hours of cleaning up rubbish, we moved pebbles from the workshop to pre-school to finish a project we started the week before. After shoveling a lot of pebbles in a wheelbarrow and spreading them in the garden, our project was finished. At the end of the day I went to help the guys from the site team with other chores.

Tuesday:

On Tuesday, Willemijn, Declan and I, together with Barrie and Jacques, drove to Hermanus at 5 o’clock in the morning. Hermanus is a village beautifully situated on the coast, less than 2 hours drive from Cape Town. After a long drive of about 15 hours we arrived at our residence in the evening. We stayed with friends of Jaqcues and Barrie who moved from Johannesburg to Hermanus before Corona. It was a very hospitable and cozy family with 2 daughters. After dinner with the family we all went to sleep.

Wednesday:

Our first real day in Hermanus started on Wednesday. Around 8 o’clock we went into the mountains for a beautiful hike through the beautiful nature of Hermanus. In the middle of the hike we arrived at a Dam where we had a lovely swim. After the hike we went to the beach to have lunch at a restaurant called Dutchies. This restaurant has Dutch owners, so of course we couldn’t pass up a home-made bitterballen. Because of the hike everyone was tired and we fell asleep one by one on the beach. This had some nasty consequences for most of us, we went back to our place of residence ;). In the evening we did a real traditional braai with the family.

Thursday:

On Thursday, Willemijn, Declan and I got into the car early in the morning on our way to Cape Town. Because Table Mountain is an iconic place in Cape Town, we planned to take the elevator to the top of the mountain. Unfortunately the wind was too strong so the lift was closed and we went to eat a good portion of fish in the company of a seal. After a delicious breakfast we drove to the southernmost tip of Africa called “Cape of Good Hope”. Before starting the hike to reach the southernmost point, we met Barrie’s cousin from the UK. The walking tour was very nice and well worth it. At the end of the afternoon we drove back to Hermanus via the coast. During this ride we stopped to look at penguins and we had a nice drink with Barrie’s family. Once we arrived in Hermanus, Annemarie had cooked a delicious meal for us.

Friday:

On Friday we had a surf lesson planned from a local. Unfortunately, after 4 rounds of golf my shoulder dislocated and it was the end of the story. The rest was fed up after 2 hours of surfing and it was time for a delicious wine tasting. Annemarie took us to Creation. This beautiful vineyard was rated the best vineyard in the world 2 times in a row. After drinking a few glasses of wine, we drank a cocktail at the beautiful place Ficks on the coast. While we were enjoying our cocktail a whale swam by. In the evening we had another delicious braai with Fricky, Annemarie and Anelet.

Saturday:

On Saturday morning, together with Barrie, we took the car to Cape Town with a beautiful detour. On the way we passed through a French village with a nice market where we had delicious samosas. On the way to Cape Town, Barrie had a meeting and Declan, Willemijn and I had a delicious breakfast on a farm. After Barrie finished his meeting we continued our journey towards Cape Town. Once we arrived in Cape Town, we drove a bit along the coast and quickly got out to see a nice African shop. At 3 o’clock Willemijn and I had an appointment with some friends who do volunteer work in Cape Town, although they were 1.5 hours late, it was very nice. Once back in Hermanus, we went out with Anelet and her friends at the “Witte Haasie”.

Sunday:

Sunday I was broke and Willemijn and Declan tired. Despite the fact that it had become a late evening, Declan thought it was a good plan to go hiking for about 7 hours. I valued my sleep a little more and stayed in my nest for a few more hours. In the morning we went to church and then had a delicious lunch. At Willemijn’s request, we took a quick look at the art galleries and then went shopping for another delicious braai. After the braai everyone went to sleep early to get in the car early the next morning to Johannesburg.

Awesome that you are reading our next week blog! If you didn’t check out our previous blogs of our South Africa trip, please do that first. Then you have our whole story and some things make a lot more sense if you read all the blogs in chronological order. 

The beginning of week 3 started with a tough task for Tijn and Declan. They were helping the preschool with their garden in front. It was just an open space with rocks around it at first, but Tijn and Declan turned it into an amazing looking garden with beautiful plants and pebbles. There are 5 sections with plants and those sections are surrounded by beautiful red colored pebbles. A big middle section is surrounded by big rocks and in that section the words “Jesus at the center” is written with all different colorful pebbles. And all the dead space is filled up with white and gray pebbles. Getting all the pebbles from one place to the garden was the hardest part of the job. But we got it done and it looks great and the principal of the preschool agrees with us.

Quinn worked in the office again on our project and on his business. He has his own business he is still running from here in South Africa. So he was working a lot with his computer. Willemijn made all her hours again working in the preschool. 

We thought we can also share are ‘normal’ activities during the week. For example, every week on Wednesday a bus from LIV is going to a mall. This is for all of us to do our groceries (all volunteers, not just us 4). We have a schedule of who does the dishes, one is doing the dishes each day. And almost every day we all help with cooking, but Tijn and Declan cook the most. 

On Friday we had a big event with everyone at LIV Village. We all got together in the big hall we have on the premises. All the kids, parents, teachers, people that work for LIV and all the volunteers were there. We were split in 5 teams and we competed in fun games against each other. We also danced together, ate together and painted each other’s faces. And last but not least we had a jelly fight with everyone outside.    

On Saturday we went out to a botanical garden near us, with a beautiful waterfall. We walked around for a bit and afterwards we went out to the gym nearby. The next day we went out to the botanical garden again, but this time we went with Jacque and Russel. Jacque also had his kids with him, Amelia and Joshua. This time we went up the mountain next to the waterfall and we even went off the hiking path. We jumped across a river and went up the mountain to get an amazing view. 

Declan’s experience

I realized I’m starting to get into a routine during this week. Waking up early, doing volunteer work, eating lunch, cooking, eating, sometimes going to the gym, doing fun excursions during the weekend, etc. And I realize I’m really enjoying all of it, especially seeing Willemijn, Tijn and Quinn having fun and working hard.   

The first day me and Tijn started on the garden in front of the preschool it rained a lot. So it wasn’t that pleasant at first, but we just did it and in the end it wasn’t that bad. We got our job done for the day and we were proud of ourselves and each other. The next days we went out and finished it. It was heavy labor we had to endure, but the result was worth all the effort. It turned out to be a beautiful garden and the principal was very happy. 

I’m very happy that we can go to the gym, it really makes me feel better (physically and mentally). I usually take around 2 hours in the gym and the others are waiting for me to finish. So when I’m done, they are a little bit annoyed most of the time. I’m grateful for their patience because I really enjoy the long gym sessions.

What I also enjoy is cooking, so I gladly volunteer to cook most of the times (if I’m not too tired). Tijn has the same, so we cook the most of us 4 (but the others always help a little bit).   

The big event on Friday was Awesome! I really liked how lively it was, everyone seemed happy and we all were competing in the challenges with full conviction. I also enjoyed seeing everyone dance together. After we ate some food and got goody bags, we started the jelly fight outside. I really saw all the kids get competitive and a lot of passion in their eyes. I enjoyed being a part of this amazing event and in my eyes it brought all of us closer together. I also got to know, some people I didn’t really speak to before, a lot better. 

Our first visit to the botanical garden was already amazing, but the next day with Jacque, his kids and Russel was even better. With Jacque, his kids and Russel was on a Sunday, so we first went to Church from 9 until 12. After that we went out to a grocery store and bought food and drinks to have a picknick together. Then we made our way to the botanical garden and picked a nice spot in the park just before the waterfall. We ate some of our food, drank some water and played soccer with the kids. After that we went out on a hike and like said before, we went of the hiking path to see if we could clime a mountain. And we did, we went all the way up. I really enjoyed that, because I’m adventurous, I like to go to places where there is a nice view and getting there is not an easy task. We also saw a scorpion, porcupine coil, big ant nests and a lot more interesting insect (some way bigger than others). Overall an awesome day with awesome people!

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In week 2 we were kind of getting in a routine with the work we were doing. Quinn worked mostly on our garden project, getting our ideas on paper, getting the details about what and how much materials we need and getting an overview of the land we can use. We got a friend of Barrie and Jacque to assist us with an aerial picture, made by his drone. That really helped us because with that we can get a clear view of what comes where and we can make a 3D map on top of the pictures. Tijn and Declan also helped Quinn sometimes with the thinking and getting the details right. 

Tijn and Declan worked with the maintenance team when they weren’t helping Quinn with the garden project. They removed an overhead metal structure, because it was in the way of the garden project we are running. They had to dig a 40cm hole around a concrete block that was at the bottom of the metal structure (the concrete was there to keep it from falling over). That wasn’t an easy task because the ground was hard as a rock. So they had to use a pickaxe to loosen the ground, so they could shovel tke the ground away. They also helped with removing the big concrete blocks with a sludge hammer and bringing the metal structure and roofing to the other side of the village, where there is a storage for these kinds of materials. Because they can use them for something else in the future. 

Willemijn spend most of her time in the preschool again this week. She has the kids from the age of 2 until the age of 3. She also had an event for all the grandparents in the area, it is called grandparents day. But you’ll hear more about this at the end of this blog, because Willemijn will share her experiences from this week.

In the weekend we went out with just the 4 of us to a nice restaurant called Social on main. It’s a nice-looking restaurant with young audience and it is really affordable. We enjoyed it a lot and the food and drinks were amazing. The next day we went out Chameleon village, which is a nice place with an African market and some nice restaurants. You can also go-kart and swim there, but we just walked around and bought matching necklaces. 

Willemijn’s experience 

Week 2, for me this was a week of reflection. I’m starting to get used to the first impressions. I started thinking about certain questions. Why am I really here? Do I like volunteer work? Do I miss friends and family? Do I get energy from the people around me? How am I doing, am I happy?

Most answers were positive. It helps that my roommates Shell and Steffie have welcomed me warmly and that I get on well with Declan, Tijn and Quinn. Nice bonds are also starting to grow with the teachers and I enjoy the children at the preschool. Still, preschool is a place I sometimes dreaded spending from 7:30am to 3pm. Mainly because I was mentally challenged little. The tasks such as feeding, cleaning their faces, straightening tables and chairs and so on, did not challenge me and that is precisely why it sucked my energy. I noticed that I was not happy with what I did, but with who I did it. This made it difficult at times when I realized it was only week two. I started looking for solutions. Where can I apply my knowledge and skills? I realized that the simple knowledge can be important in a preschool like this. I told the preschool how to make all colors with blue, yellow and red paint. In the short term this had a nice effect on the art the children made and in the long term this will have a positive effect on the school’s expenses. Ideas that I received in the past, such as printing leaves in paint with a tree and then printing it on paper, impressed the teachers and kids. We did this in the African colors, it looked cool!

Last week we had grandparents day at preschool. Tijn and I baked a cake. At every event we make sure that there is more than enough to eat. And we had! At least that’s what I thought. The grandpas and grandmas ate a lot and took food home, which is a custom here. Within half an hour the whole table was filled with food and almost empty.

When asked how much someone had to pay if she wanted a homemade cake like this for her son, I realized that I couldn’t just say “For your son’s birthday I’ll bake it for free!!”. If you say that to one, you’ll have a whole row with the same question before you know it. That is why Tijn and I charge the price of the purchase, even if you prefer to give it for free. Unless not requested. For example, we already baked cakes for Patience (teacher) and Mesi (teenager at LIV village), because it was their birthday. I’m starting to find it easier to decline certain questions, such as the free cakes. In the Netherlands I sometimes have trouble with this. One of the first days a teacher asked if I could buy some chocolate so she could eat it on the way home. I didn’t dare to say no because I was not used to such a direct question. So the next day she did indeed walk home with my chocolate bar. Although I totally agree with her, she has to walk home for 45 minutes every day. From that moment on she kept asking every time and I learned to say “no”. When a teacher asked: “Can you give your shoes to me so I can remember you when your back in the Netherlands?” I replied laughing: “no, I’m sorry, you must do it with the good memories we have together 😉 ”.

Okay enough about preschool for now. I continue on the great weekend. We had been to Social on main. As Declan mentioned, the food was very tasty and also affordable. For Tijn, the bill was a bit disappointing, he had now tasted every cocktail on the menu. It made for nice conversations in the uber.

The next day we went to Chameleon village. Not a convenient place to take me. Quickly view all markets, once food is ordered, quickly view all markets and when it is time to go, just to be sure, quickly view all markets. The word “fast” no longer has any value for the boys either. They even came up with the idea that I should sign a contract that says “own responsibility if I get kidnapped, if I run away without saying again or run into a store”. Okay but long story short; I enjoyed myself here and the boys had a good meal, which means that they also enjoyed themselves. And believe it or not, I got them on the chains from the market. Which they wear every day.

Thank you for checking out our blog! This is a blog about our two month trip to South Africa and we are Willemijn (18 years old), Tijn (19 years old), Quinn (20 years old) and Declan (24 years old). Declan is the group’s facilitator.

All 4 of us were ready to go on Friday, October 14, 2022, but our flight was rescheduled 2 times by KLM unfortunately. After the second time, we decided to cancel the flight ourselves and booked a flight via Brussels.

So now almost a week later we all leave for Brussels by train. Everything went smoothly, it only was a long journey. We left home about 1:00 PM and arrived at our destination in Johannesburg South Africa at 10:00 AM the next day.

After doing some shopping that day, we recovered from the long journey and unpacked our suitcases. The next day we had an appointment with Barrie and Jacque, the supervisors and managers from South Africa. We had discussed how everything will go for the next 8 weeks and what we want to get out of our trip.

In the weekend we went to the Sterkfontein Caves close to where we are staying. These are caves created by nature itself, but also exploded by humans to extract raw materials and minerals from the caves. We have also been invited by other volunteers to go out for dinner to get to know them.

We have also oriented our accommodation well and got to know all the people here. We stay here in LIV village for orphans, who got a new family here. There is also a crèche and a baby home on our site, where children also come from a slum. The slum is not far from here and LIV supports this slum called Joslovo. LIV is a non-profit organization mainly focused on helping children. There is also a large garden on the property from which a lot of fruit and vegetables are obtained, which is also used to support the people in the area.

We are therefore here to help LIV and to volunteer. You can work in the garden, the crèche, maintenance team and in the office (administration).

After the weekend it was time to get to work on Monday. We immediately started our joint project. This project is inventing and making a meditation garden. We were immediately taken to a dream location where we could get inspiration from. Immediately our creativity started to work and the ideas started to come. When we came back from the dream location we immediately started our plan.

Willemijn has been in the crèche almost every day since Monday to help. In addition to working on the plan for the garden, Tijn and Declan also helped with the maintenance team. Among other things, they have a large place where all loose dead bamboo has been removed and given to people in the area who could use it. Quinn has only been concerned with the plan for the meditation garden.

Quinn’s experience this week

On Monday, the site-manager of LIV, Dan, took us on a small tour around the area. First, we started off with a place called Casa Linga. It’s a gorgeous place that doubles as both a garden and a wedding venue. It’s very spacious, and vibrant of countless colors. Think flowers, statues, trees, and all kinds of other decorations. We absorbed everything we saw, and boomed with inspiration for the meditation garden. Personally, it felt really good, feeling my brain do some work while brainstorming. After grabbing some ice-coffee, we got up and took a drive around the area, where Dan told us a lot about the country, similar gardens, and other places of interest. I found it pretty pleasant and relaxing. We were told there would be a variation of wildlife, but unfortunately, we didn’t get to see too much. We got back and took a look around our garden, and started planning.

We had a LOT of ideas, but realized that, unfortunately, we would have to stay for a couple more years to finish all of it, which felt really unfortunate, but I don’t think I have that time at my disposal. So we started thinking a little smaller, and focusing on one smaller part of the garden, in which we felt would have the most impact. We chose to choose this part (picture). Because it already looked nice, but was also easiest to access.

The biggest requirements were:

• Build a peaceful place to sit down and get some rest
• Increase the crop yield by 300%

So we started brainstorming, and I made some pictures around the place, and wrote down what we wanted to do with it. But then I was thinking, that it might be good to take some pictures from above. So we asked around, and turns out, we found someone that had a drone. We had to wait a while before we could actually do it, unfortunately. But it was the start of a great project, and something I was very looking forward to.